SanderXpander wrote:Maybe I just need a few more years of this
In addition to a ton of older stuff ranging from Rock Around The Clock to Proud Mary, Blame It On The Boogie, Kiss, Le Freak, Proud Mary, Fame, Raining Men and so on and so forth.
Think that's the generic "pub rock set list"

You probably have "Hard To handle", "Mustang Sally", "Everybody", "Ho Ho Silver lining" and "Midnight hour" in there somewhere as well!

All good crowd pleasers of course that I didn't mind playing.

I just mention that point, as it never fails to amaze me how much common ground there can be in set lists. It is of course a testament to the enduring popularity of the songs in question and why they are staples.
Some of your other material is interesting as well, and makes a good mix of old and new. That's also one of the reasons why I quit that band in questionl, because there was no willingness to do anything contemporary at the time to have something for the younger people. Myself and the guitar player wanted to inject some more modern material ( I recollect the Scissor Sisters and the Killers at the time had some good songs we both wanted to do), but the vote was for Amarillo (arrrrggghhhh!) and it was the only song we learnt in 2005. So the writing was on the wall for the band, but that infernal song really was the last straw for me.
And that's why I offered the song "Amarillo" in answer to Jeremy's question "What songs should a band never play?" as an example of a song that is my example of the most dreadful ever song

Well there's quite a few others as well.
It's funny though. I haven't gigged for a year or so (been very busy in work, often being overseas) and some of my music projects were taking longer than expected to get ready to gig, when out of the blue an old drummer mate rang up and asked if I wanted to join a "rock band" he was starting up. I was keen for the opportunity to play live again - and in a rock band, but of course the definition of rock is a little loose. I asked him for the set list, took one look at it, and said "thanks, but no thanks...", as it had some truly dreadful cheese in it.
The important thing of course is to enjoy what you are doing, otherwise you will not put your heart and soul into it. That's why I said no to my mate, because it would have been going through the motions playing a lot of stuff that I stopped enjoying in 2005! When I spoke to him, he did say it was not his choice of music either.
So if you love playing your set and getting out there, that's great. It's what it's about.
I'm currently working on a little project with the Kronos only to do a 70s/80s electronica duo set for a bit of fun, so doing things like Gary Numan, Ultravox, Visage. The golden rule with the singer and myself is that the song decisions must be unanimous. So both of us accept there will be songs that one of us wants to do that the other doesn't, so they are out, but there is plenty of great common ground material out there that we will still get a good set of interesting music.